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What Our Eyes Don’t See (and What They Do)

  • Writer: Amber Howard
    Amber Howard
  • Jul 29
  • 2 min read

Our eyes are miraculous.


They take in light, motion, shape, and colour. They send signals to the brain at astonishing speeds. They orient us to danger. They help us read emotion, faces, skies. They are, for many of us, our primary sensory tool for navigating the world.


But they are not neutral.

They are not objective.

They do not simply receive.

They filter, edit, omit, and distort—constantly.


What our eyes don’t show us is often far more powerful than what they do.

The Science of Seeing


What we see is not raw reality—it’s interpretation.


Only a tiny fraction of the light spectrum is visible to human eyes. Even within that range, our brains filter out what it doesn’t deem necessary. In fact, we fill in most of our vision with memory and expectation. The subconscious mind—rooted in past experience—literally edits our perception. Studies in cognitive psychology and neuroscience reveal that what we “see” is primarily shaped by our beliefs, biases, and prior programming.


This means that we’re not seeing the world—we’re re-seeing what we already think we know.

When a person believes they are not worthy, not beautiful, not good enough, the brain unconsciously filters for evidence of that belief. The mirror reflects the distortion. Compliments are dismissed. Kindness is distrusted. The eyes scan for flaws. And they find them. Because that’s what they’ve been trained to see.


The Spiritual Lens


Spiritually, the eyes are not the seat of truth.

In many traditions, the third eye—associated with intuition, inner sight, and soul knowing—is considered the true center of perception. The physical eyes serve the ego and the earthly mind; they separate, categorize, judge. They see form, not essence.


But the spiritual eye?


It sees energy. Intention.

Vibration.

It sees past skin and shape and title and time.

It sees who we really are.

And when it opens, we begin to realize how blind we’ve been.


This is why healing is not just about what we do—but how we see.

Can we learn to see with love instead of fear?

Can we retrain our vision to recognize wholeness instead of lack?


A Personal Reflection


For most of my life, my eyes deceived me.


I looked in the mirror and I couldn’t see my beauty.

Not because it wasn’t there—but because my eyes had been trained not to see it.

They were taught to see “too much” or “not enough,” to focus on the wrong parts, to measure me against impossible standards. I scanned for flaws, for failures, for things to fix. And my eyes delivered—because they always do.


It took years of unlearning.

Years of softening, rewiring, and remembering.

It took spiritual work—coming home to myself, beyond form.

It took choosing to see myself the way life sees me: radiant, whole, complete.


And now, when I look in the mirror, I pause.

I breathe.

I ask not what’s wrong, but what’s real.

I remember that my eyes are a lens—not a law.

And I choose to see with my heart.


A New Way of Seeing


So what do your eyes show you?

And what are they hiding?


If you were to stop, just for a moment, and look again—

Not from the eyes of fear, or ego, or habit—

But from love.

From softness.

From soul.


What might you finally see?

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