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Letting Go of Expectations
Letting go of expectations has not been dramatic for me. It has been a soft undoing — a releasing of who I thought I needed to be so that something truer could emerge.
Amber Howard
10 hours ago5 min read


The Debt We Were Never Meant to Repay
None of us arrive at our ideas alone. We step onto ground shaped by lives we may never know—wisdom carried forward without credit, labour offered without recognition. This is a reflection on the debt of gratitude we were never meant to repay, only to remember.
Amber Howard
3 days ago5 min read


I Was Never Meant to Sell
I was never meant to sell to another human being. I was meant to tend something — to care for what wants to circulate, and to build what allows it to remain open.
Amber Howard
4 days ago4 min read


Concept Therapy, Not Concept Theory
We don’t just misread words—we misread the world. We see what we expect to see, hear what fits our stories, and interpret ourselves through ideas we learned long before we questioned them. What we call reality is often just perception, quietly edited by the mind.
Amber Howard
5 days ago4 min read


What Do I Mean When I Say “Sovereignty”?
Sovereignty is what remains when we stop betraying ourselves. It is not control or independence, but the natural integrity that arises when life is lived in right relationship.
Amber Howard
Jan 124 min read


The Quiet Weight of “Should”
I wasn’t just sick — I was arguing with reality. The moment I stopped telling healing how it should unfold, I found myself carried instead of exhausted.
Amber Howard
Jan 114 min read


My Journey into the Miraculous
Some miracles arrive as unexpected companions. Others arrive as the courage to release what was never ours to carry.
Amber Howard
Dec 31, 20253 min read


When Money Became More Important Than Us
Somewhere along the way, profit became more sacred than people—and we’ve been calling that progress ever since.
Amber Howard
Dec 28, 20253 min read


What If the System Isn’t Broken?
What becomes possible when we stop trying to fix systems that were never designed for human flourishing?
Amber Howard
Dec 12, 20253 min read


From Survival to Sovereignty: Stepping Into a Future I Cannot Yet See
Stepping beyond survival, I choose sovereignty—trusting a future I can’t yet see, where miracles rise outside the edges of my knowing.
Amber Howard
Dec 8, 20253 min read


When the Weight Begins to Slip Off Your Shoulders
After a lifetime of carrying the world, something in me finally loosened. Purpose is no longer duty—it’s the freedom to live my own life.
Amber Howard
Dec 4, 20254 min read


The Human Split: Part I — The Divine Split
Before humanity fractured, the sacred did. The Divine split first — and the echo of that loss is the ache we still carry in our lives today.
Amber Howard
Nov 25, 20253 min read


The Identities We Create to Survive (And How We Come Home to Ourselves)
We are not our survival roles. Letting them go is not betrayal—it’s remembrance. You are who you were before you had to become.
Amber Howard
Nov 19, 20253 min read


The Myth of Common Sense
“Common sense” isn’t common—it’s inherited. Real freedom begins when we learn to think for ourselves. Critical thinking is a practice.
Amber Howard
Oct 22, 20253 min read


Wounds Into Wisdom: The Alchemy of Pain
From pain to power — our wounds hold the seeds of wisdom. What was meant to break us can become what makes us whole.
Amber Howard
Oct 20, 20253 min read


The Peace I Never Expected
Peace didn’t come from knowing what’s next. It came from no longer needing to—and learning to trust the beauty of not knowing.
Amber Howard
Sep 29, 20252 min read


What Crime Reveals About Us
What we call crime isn’t just about harm—it’s about who society refuses to see as human. Justice begins with remembering relationship.
Amber Howard
Sep 7, 20254 min read


The Bubble I Built
I built a bubble to stay steady in a broken world—only to learn I must let it soften to truly live, connect, and make change.
Amber Howard
Sep 1, 20252 min read


The Space Between What I Said and What You Heard
Two people can sit inches apart and still be worlds away. Between what I say and what you hear lives a lifetime of noise — our frames, our past, our fears. Real communication is rare. But when the noise falls away, when the past loosens its grip, we meet in that quiet space between us. In that moment, words become more than sound — they become a bridge we build together.
Amber Howard
Aug 13, 20253 min read


What Goes Viral and Why? - The Anatomy of a Hungry World
Hate goes viral not because it’s powerful, but because it feels familiar. Conditioned by generations of pain, we consume what mirrors our wounds and confirm our disconnection. But we have the power to choose what we amplify. Love can be just as contagious—if we’re willing to live it boldly, vulnerably, and consistently. The algorithms may be programmed, but they’re fed by us. Let’s remember what we’re truly hungry for.
Amber Howard
Aug 4, 20252 min read
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