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Letting Go of Expectations
Letting go of expectations has not been dramatic for me. It has been a soft undoing — a releasing of who I thought I needed to be so that something truer could emerge.
Amber Howard
9 hours ago5 min read


I Was Never Meant to Sell
I was never meant to sell to another human being. I was meant to tend something — to care for what wants to circulate, and to build what allows it to remain open.
Amber Howard
4 days ago4 min read


Concept Therapy, Not Concept Theory
We don’t just misread words—we misread the world. We see what we expect to see, hear what fits our stories, and interpret ourselves through ideas we learned long before we questioned them. What we call reality is often just perception, quietly edited by the mind.
Amber Howard
5 days ago4 min read


When We Say “Systems,” What Do We Mean?
At the level of empire, systems adapt beautifully. They change just enough to ensure their own continuation.
Amber Howard
Dec 19, 20253 min read


The Trap of Progress
Progress promises forward motion, but rarely asks who benefits, who pays, or what is quietly lost along the way.
Amber Howard
Dec 15, 20254 min read


The Architecture of Empire
Empire shaped us before we had words, but beneath its architecture lives an older truth—one that is quietly remembering itself.
Amber Howard
Dec 11, 20255 min read


Beyond Right and Wrong: A Return to What Works
Letting go of right/wrong isn’t losing clarity — it’s gaining connection. Curiosity returns, and collaboration becomes possible.
Amber Howard
Dec 10, 20253 min read


When Success Stops Belonging to Us
True success is not achievement — it’s alignment. The courage to choose a life of your own design.
Amber Howard
Dec 9, 20254 min read


The Human Shift: Part VII — The Return of the Goddess
The feminine never vanished—she rises again as we reclaim the parts of ourselves we abandoned. Wholeness begins where the split dissolves.
Amber Howard
Dec 3, 20254 min read


The Human Shift: Part VI — The Architecture of Violence
Violence isn’t born in a moment but in a world that feared the feminine. We inherit the wound — and the power to end the story.
Amber Howard
Dec 2, 20254 min read


The Human Shift: Part V — The Denial of Female Pleasure
A woman in her pleasure is a woman returning to herself. Pleasure is not indulgence but sovereignty—the forgotten fire the world tried to silence.
Amber Howard
Dec 1, 20254 min read


The Human Split: Part IV — The Madonna-Whore Split
When the feminine sacred fell, she split into holy and forbidden. The wound was never woman — it was the fracture of the feminine itself.
Amber Howard
Nov 28, 20255 min read


The Human Shift: - Part III — The Fall of the Human Father
When the feminine sacred vanished, men lost half of themselves. The father-wound is not failure but inheritance, a grief carried in silence.
Amber Howard
Nov 27, 20256 min read


The Human Shift: Part II — The Myth of the Perfect Mother
When the divine feminine disappeared, her weight fell onto human women. The mother-wound is not personal — it’s the burden of a vanished god.
Amber Howard
Nov 26, 20254 min read


The Human Split: Part I — The Divine Split
Before humanity fractured, the sacred did. The Divine split first — and the echo of that loss is the ache we still carry in our lives today.
Amber Howard
Nov 25, 20253 min read


Reweaving the Village: Right Relationship with Kin
You were never meant to do this alone. Freedom is found in the circle—in kinship, in care, in the village we are here to reweave.
Amber Howard
Sep 18, 20254 min read


Right Relationship & Letting Go: A Practice of Returning
Letting go isn’t losing — it’s returning. To self, to truth, to love that evolves. Right relationship begins with open hands.
Amber Howard
Sep 5, 20253 min read


We Were Never Meant to Do This Alone
We were never meant to do this alone.
Not healing. Not dreaming. Not becoming.
The Created Life is a return to what we once knew: that we are whole, yes — but never meant to be whole in isolation.
It’s time to remember the village, to reweave the circle, to let ourselves lean, ask, and belong again.
Because true power isn’t in doing it all alone — it’s in becoming together.
Amber Howard
Aug 15, 20252 min read


Tribalism Is Not the Problem: The Real Root of Disconnection
We blame tribalism for our disconnection—but it was tribe that once held us. What if the problem is forgetting, not belonging?
Amber Howard
Jul 25, 20252 min read


Right Relationship: A Return to Belonging
Right relationship is not about being perfect—it is about living in sacred alignment with self, others, and the Earth. Rooted in traditions like Rastafarian “I and I,” Anishinaabe Mino-Bimaadiziwin, and African Ubuntu, it invites us to walk with reverence, reciprocity, and truth. It is how we return to belonging, to integrity, and to the sacred web of life that holds us all.
Amber Howard
Jul 21, 20253 min read
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